Nollywood actress Yetunde Bakare has emphasized the importance of an active sex life in maintaining a happy home. In a recent interview with Saturday Beats, Bakare discussed the often-overlooked challenges men face in marriages and the critical role of sexual satisfaction in marital happiness.
Bakare stated, “In our society, people often fail to empathize with men. When a woman leaves her marriage, it is often seen as a move to protect her mental health. However, when a man makes the same decision, he is labeled as ‘irresponsible,’ ignoring the fact that he is also human.”
Highlighting the significance of sexual fulfillment in marriage, she continued, “One essential ingredient of a happy home is an active and fulfilling sex life. Marriage is a significant commitment, and one shouldn’t enter it without knowing their partner well. For couples who are no longer getting sexual satisfaction from each other, I would advise them to sit down, discuss the issue, and find a solution.”
Bakare advised couples to seek professional help if sexual dissatisfaction persists. “Love might not always be enough, so it’s important to marry someone one can tolerate through all circumstances; be they financial, mental, or physical challenges. If none of those issues are present, but there is still ‘sexual withdrawal,’ it is advisable to consult a marriage counselor or sex therapist,” she said.
Reflecting on her acting career, Bakare likened it to a bumpy ride. “Generally, life is full of ups and downs, so my experience so far has been a bumpy ride. I believe nobody has it smooth, even if they have money to run things in the industry. One will still face some challenges that might even affect one mentally if one doesn’t have a tough skin,” she explained.
Bakare’s insights shed light on the complexities of marital relationships and the importance of addressing sexual health and communication within marriages.
